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I like to say that there is usually an exception to every rule. However, I’ve always felt it’s reckless to book a trip when you don’t have the money on hand to pay for it. Sure, if it’s your loved one’s dying wish to fulfill a bucket-list dream, I can sort of see it. But very few of us will end up in this kind of predicament.
Most of the time, the question of whether to go on a certain trip or not comes down to our desires. Let’s face it, travel isn’t really essential. But just a few days ago I went ahead and booked a relatively expensive cruise without having the funds to cover it. Here is why.
Changing our anniversary plans
A few months ago, I’ve mentioned that my husband and I are thinking about booking a Windstar cruise in Tahiti for our 25th wedding anniversary next year. This is a very expensive treat but hey, how often are you married for a quarter of a century?! Once.
Anyway, I was recently talking to MIL about it and my son goes: “Mommy, can you please take me with you?” Just him, not his sister. I told him it’s really a cruise for adults, and that we would go as a family in a few years. When I told my husband about it, I knew he would say out loud what we were both thinking. He has suggested that maybe we should put this money towards a family cruise instead.
I’ve already mentioned that I would be perfectly happy to fly to an island in a Caribbean and use miles and points towards our anniversary getaway. Or maybe even drive to Key West. Plus, my husband is already treating me to a fancy Costa Rica getaway this year.
It’s not that our kids are deprived in any way. In fact, it’s the complete opposite. They are spoiled rotten with fabulous vacations. But I knew my husband would not be able to resist changing our plans because many years ago he was that little boy sending his parents on a guilt trip.
In late eighties my in-laws decided to go on their very first cruise by themselves and leave the kids with grandparents. This was when cruising first started to go mainstream. My husband was about ten years old. When they came back, he was so mesmerized by their stories, he offered to give up all of his allowance if they could take him next time. You know, my FIL, not long before he died, was still talking about how bad it made him feel.
I know cruising isn’t for everyone, but it’s something our family loves. Not the party atmosphere or crowded pools, but the sheer romance of being in the open sea and watching the stars from the deck or better yet, your own private balcony. It’s hard to describe unless you’ve experienced it first-hand.
My original plan was to book a cruise over next Thanksgiving, a few months before the sailing date. This would give me time to save up some money. However, my husband has recently discovered that he has two weeks worth of flex time that will expire at the end of this year.
We could, of course, sit at home or do an inexpensive getaway somewhere in Florida. Or we could go on a cruise. I checked what sailings were available, and there was one I’ve been watching for the last decade. It was always out of our price range, but I’ve noticed that it was now 30% less than usual. I’m sure Covid pandemic uncertainty+possible recession has something to do with it.
The ship also had connecting balcony staterooms available, as there is no way I would agree to cruise with our two kids in a room that is 190 square feet. I asked my husband if he would be able to get a Thanksgiving week off. Approved!
Since everyone in my family is fully vaccinated and boosted, I finally feel comfortable going on a cruise. Plus, all of us except my son, had Covid in January, so I’m hoping we still have some natural immunity left. There are no guarantees, of course, but I feel Covid will be part of our lives going forward. There will be new variants, and cruising will always have some extra risk associated with it.
Paying for cruise via 0% offer on an existing card
There was still a small matter of finding a way to finance this expensive treat. Normally, I don’t pay attention to 0% offers on purchases. I usually work on new sign-up bonuses or use existing savings to cover emergencies. But the only way we would book this cruise was by stretching the payments over 7 months or so.
Fortunately, several of my Barclaycards had a 0% promo on new purchases through March of 2023. I needed to acquire some Wyndham points anyway, so this card earning 2 points per dollar seemed like a logical choice. The total price was a bit over $5k for two connecting balcony cabins, which is a boatload of money. But again, this is a bucket-list item, and not just any cruise.
I normally recommend Cruisecompete.com where travel agencies fight for your business by sending offers to your email address. In my case, the cruise I was interested in wasn’t listed there. Cruise.com had an exclusive deal on my sailing, so that’s who I ended up purchasing it through. I did not attempt to get a free Carnival cruise for various reasons, but I recommend Nancy’s post if that’s something you are interested in doing.
After I used the Wyndham card, I found out that one of my Amex cards has a 0% offer on purchases through next July, which is an even better deal. Oh well. I did accept it because it may come in handy in the future. So why not? With Fed raising the rates, these offers may dry up in a near future.
So, I have 7 months to pay off this cruise, and I fully intend to do so before 0% offer runs out. Fortunately, we only have one more payment on my husband’s car, so that should free up some cash. Our mortgage is paid off and we have no other debts. Well, except this cruise.
My only worry is our old van breaking down in a near future. But in all likelihood, we would try to fix it and just use Amex card with 0% offer. It’s cheaper than buying a new car, that’s for sure. We also have some Roth IRAs invested in CDs at a local bank, which can be cashed out without penalty. Well, at least the principal portion. That would be a drastic measure, but I consider Roth IRA to be my second layer of emergency fund. It’s just that my first layer is currently tied up in I-Bonds, which I can’t access until the end of April of 2023.
Cashing out points
Originally, I was planning to save my flexible points for possible future mileage transfers. However, I currently have enough miles for at least two years’ worth of vacations. And I need to pay off this cruise now. So, I went ahead and redeemed Chase Ultimate Rewards points towards my AirBnB booking in Paris at 1.25 cents apiece. It gave me almost $700 in cash I wasn’t counting on. I also used Capital One points to cover a recent $600 travel charge. That’s $1,300 that I didn’t technically have before, which will help with cruise expenses.
Yes, I could potentially get greater value out of my flexible points if I held out. But here is the thing. I’m certainly going to earn points going forward, and I still need to use up what I’ve accumulated so far. I need help with paying off this cruise right now, not in two years. The bird in the hand… and you know the rest. Plus, I’ve never been a fan of hoarding.
Speaking of, not too long ago, my BIL has reached out for advice on best bonuses for cruises. He has zero interest in miles, and is looking to offset the expense.
Final thoughts
Do I recommend you follow my lead? Of course not. I certainly hope you don’t decide to get in debt because a crazy internet blogger decided to do it. I’m not a fan of financing vacations, even at 0% interest rate. In all likelihood, this is a one-time thing. Between my husband’s “use it or lose it” vacation days and cheaper than usual prices on my dream cruise, we’ve decided to pull the trigger.
Plus, we’ve traded our anniversary cruise for this sailing. That means I won’t have to worry about saving money for Tahiti in 2023. I’m hoping we can can still do this cruise for our 30th anniversary, with would be ten years after the first time we visited French Polynesia. By then, our children may not want to vacation with us! As hard as it is to travel with kids, we wouldn’t have it any other way.
We have international trips planned for 2023 and 2024, so I’m not sure our financial situation will be that much better later. After we are done paying off this cruise, my goal is to stay out of debt if at all possible. If driving an old junker van allows me to take dream trips, I’m all for it.
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Author: Leana
Leana is the founder of Miles For Family. She enjoys beach vacations and visiting her family in Europe. Originally from Belarus, Leana resides in central Florida with her husband and two children.
Kate says
Hi Leana, beside cruisecompete. Have you ever use Costco travel to book a cruise? I never use cruisecompete so just wondering if it’s cheaper than Costco travel. I would like to plan our first cruise in summer 2023 and looking for some direction. Thank you
Leana says
@Kate I don’t have any experience with booking cruises through Costco. Sorry! But it certainly doesn’t hurt to check the prices and compare them to quotes on Cruise Compete. Also, look into Discover travel portal. Sometimes they have really good deals, though you do have to use Discover card to pay. And of course, Amex offers on specific cruise lines.
Christian says
That was amazingly nice of you. Windstar is an awfully nice line and for you to give that up is impressive. I’m not at all sure I could do the same in your shoes.
Leana says
@Christian To be honest, I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing anything. But I appreciate the sentiment! The cruise we booked is super nice, and one I have wanted to do for a long time. I feel I’m spoiled already, and would be a jerk to complain. Plus, my son is still quite young and I had mixed feelings about leaving him for 9 nights anyway.
I still fully intend for me and husband to go on Windstar cruise around Tahiti someday. It will just have to wait. It took me until I was 39 to finally visit French Polynesia, but it was totally worth it.
Audrey says
Sounds amazing! Reminds me of when we went to Antarctica because my son “needed” to see all 7 continents before he was 13 🙂
I’m sure it will be well worth it. Have a fabulous trip!
On another note, I believe you can no longer use Citi points for mortgage/student loans.
https://www.doctorofcredit.com/citi-thankyou-points-discontinues-mortgage-student-loan-redemption-option/amp/
Leana says
Audrey, you are such a cool mom! Your kids are very fortunate. I hope to go to Antarctica one of these days, but it would have to be one heck of a deal.
Thanks for heads up on Citi Premier. Missed that one. Wow, that’s a bummer! Aside from redeeming points through Citi on travel, gift cards are now the best option.
Becky says
My family also loves cruises. Our three children are now adults (25, 24 & 20) and we were blessed this summer that they all were able (and willing) to cruise with us. I was so grateful that it all worked out – I don’t know how often this will work out going forward and I will be happy each time it does.
What cruise did you book? We’re always looking for special itineraries to go on!
Leana says
@Becky I really hope my kids will still want to travel with us when they become adults. It will break my heart if they don’t. They keep saying that they will move out when they turn 18, but I hope they are kidding. We shall see, I guess. My response is usually “Is that a promise?” 😉
You know, I would rather not reveal the specifics of the cruise in the post, since I already mentioned the date. Maybe I’m paranoid, but this is internet. I know for a fact that some crazy people follow this blog. I promise to do a review in a timely manner.
Becky says
Our kids have always loved to travel with us. We were fortunate that they never complained, etc (even during the high school years) about whatever we did, but as they got older they talked about this might be the last time…
Well, now that they are on their own (except the 20 year old is still in college), they seem super excited to do stuff with us! Makes me super happy that they still want to be around us and each other!!
Also, makes perfect sense about the specifics, I wasn’t thinking about that! Hope you have a great trip and look forward to reading your review!
Leana says
@Becky To me, nothing says “good parents” more than kids wanting to spend time with you when they no longer have to. You are very blessed!